
(Dan and Luke enjoying the second session of conference!)
Calling all mom's!
I need some help. Luke is going through the ever dreaded transition out of naphood (dun dun DUN!) He's almost 3, so I guess it's not extremely early for this to happen... but much earlier than
I would have allowed if given a choice.
I would customarily put him down right after lunchtime. About 2 months ago he really started fighting it and would not fall asleep until about 2:30 or 3:00. I learned quickly and pushed back nap time to 2:30 or 3:00 when I knew he would actually fall asleep. The only problem then is that he would wake up around 4:30 or 5:00pm and not be tired enough to go to sleep for the night until 10:00pm at the earliest!! Gah! We lived through that for a while because it was summer, Dan didn't get home until 7ish anyway, so having those extra hours at night was OK for the time being.
So, now I feel like I'd much rather him go to bed at 7:30pm-ish and wake up at 8:30am-ish - which is what happens if he doesn't take any sort of nap. There are two problems for which I need your expert advice:
1. I (we) still desperately need some sort of a break in the afternoon from him (each other.) We've tried a few unsuccessful quiet times-- I feel it's because he is just still too young to entertain himself in his room for a great stretch of time. We got a "quiet time timer" to set, and even some strictly "quiet time toys" which seemed to help a little... but still, about 10-15 minutes into it, he's banging at the door to come downstairs. I really don't want him in front of the TV for a long stretch of time every day, so I just don't know what to do!
2. If I give him no nap, about 4:30 he hits a wall and gets very cranky and tired. If we're in the car he'll just conk out. Some days that crankiness will last until bedtime at 7:30 or 8, and by then I want to hurt people - specifically him. Any thoughts?
Thanks for taking pity on a first-time mom. I would love to hear any ideas that worked for you!